You Can Know You Have Eternal Life
#11 Dilemma of Morality (1)
Can I do what I want to?
by Jim Mettenbrink
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In 1986, a teenager wore a necklace
with an encircled gold capital A. She explained
it was a symbol for anarchy which was her standard for life and
society. She wanted to do as she pleased and thought everyone
had that right. Implicitly she was advocating that each
person is his own god, making his own standards. Suspecting
that she did not really believe in No Laws, I proposed
an extreme case, asking if it would be all right for her neighbor
to rape her. She retorted He cant do that.
Thus I informed her that she was not a true anarchist,
because she believed in having at least one law. Why did
this young woman think there should be no laws, implicitly a
morality with no accountability?
In a 2001 survey, including interviews
with Boston high school students about attitudes toward sex,
Victoria, a member of the National Honor Society, and a two-sport
athlete, stated Its not just the trashy girls who
are having sex. A lot of people who are in the top 20 of
their class, who are star athletes, and in the National Honor
Society... are having sex. She went on to say that
her father, who talked to her about carrying condoms when she
goes to college next year, said You can do what you want,
but do it respectfully. Really? What is her
definition of trashy? What does her father
consider to be respectable sex? With a condom?
What is the standard of morality these folks live by?
Interviewing a store clerk applicant,
the personnel manager asked if it was ever alright to take anything
from the store without paying for it. When he answered
yes, the manager inquired how he concluded that. He said
that a person might need it to live. Most of us call this
stealing! Yet here is a man whose morality rails against
what most of us, at least sense, is not right. It just
doesnt seem right.
Yes, all of us have an innate sense
of right and wrong, a sense of oughtness. So
why do these people have these attitudes, implicitly a morality
that tends toward disorder and destabilizing family and society?
All order in a society starts with
a moral code of some sort. Will any moral code provide
the stability of life that all of us long for? Can each
of us make our own moral code? In this series we will seek
to answer these questions.
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