Berean Break
September 28, 2003 broadcast
The ABCs of Decision Making
by George Sinkie
Good
morning on this Fall morning and welcome to the Berean Break.
My name is George Sinkie and I am so glad you have joined
me. You made a decision to tune in to todays program.
And that is what we are going to look at this morning
decisions. Before we go into that though lets go
to God in prayer,
Dear God in heaven. We
thank You for this day in our lives and for the beauty of this
time of year. As we see the signs of harvest all around
us help us to remember that we need to bear fruit. Help
us also to remember the farmer who plants his seed in hope and
harvests in faith. We thank You for Jesus and may each
of us decide to serve You more with our lives. In Jesus
name we pray, AMEN!!
Decisions, decisions. We
make them everyday! Many of the decisions we make are very
minor. For example, what will I eat for breakfast? What
kind of toothpaste will I use? What kind of car will I
drive? Will I part my hair on the left or the right? Or
perhaps, no part at all? Will I drink my coffee with cream,
or without? What kind of shoes will I wear, lace-ups, or
slip-ons? I could go on and on. Im sure you
could make a list of your own similar decisions. These
decisions are, at least in view of eternity, of no importance.
But other decisions we make are
of greater significance. Where will I work? Will
I be married? If so, whom will I marry? Will I have
children? If so, how will I provide for my family? Will
I be a Christian? Not just a Christian, but a faithful
Christian. Will I study the Bible? Or will I look
upon Gods word as a trivial matter? These decisions
have far more lasting consequences. Some of these decisions,
literally, have eternal consequences.
How should we arrive at the decisions
we make? While a flip of the coin may be a
satisfactory method of making some decisions, no reasonable person
would want to make a major life-changing decision in such a haphazard
manner. Decisions of any real significance involve serious
thought and deliberation. Obviously, its possible
for a person to make not only wise choices, but unwise choices
as well. How can a person know he has made a wise decision?
Lets consider a few tips that should be helpful in
the decision making process. What I would like to call,
the ABCs of decision making.
First, ALWAYS be AWARE of others.
Consider the tragic decision of Achan, recorded for us
in Joshua 7:1-26. In Joshua chapter six, God had given
the Israelites instructions as to how they were to be victorious
in capturing the city of Jericho. Notice Gods instructions
to Joshua in Joshua 6:2-5:
2 And the Lord said to
Joshua, See,
I have given Jericho into your hand, with its king and the valiant
warriors.
3 And you shall march around the city,
all the men of war circling the city once. You shall do
so for six days.
4 Also seven priests shall carry seven
trumpets of rams horns before the ark; then on the seventh
day you shall march around the city seven times, and the priests
shall blow the trumpets.
5 And it shall be that when they make a
long blast with the rams horn, and when you hear the sound
of the trumpet, all the people shall shout with a great shout;
and the wall of the city will fall down flat, and the people
will go up every man straight ahead.
Joshua
also reminds them that the spoils of Jericho belong to God in
Joshua 6:17- 19,
17 And the city shall
be under the ban, it and all that is in it belongs to the Lord;
only Rahab the harlot and all who are with her in the house
shall live, because she hid the messengers whom we sent.
18
But
as for you, only keep yourselves from the things under the ban,
lest you covet them and take some of the things under the ban,
so you would make the camp of Israel accursed and bring trouble
on it.
19
But
all the silver and gold and articles of bronze and iron are holy
to the Lord; they shall go into the treasury of the Lord.
After
taking Jericho, the Israelites next step was to take the city
of Ai. However, the Israelites met with unexpected resistance.
Thirty-six Israelites died in the battle. Joshua
mourned over the Israelites defeat. Listen to Joshuas
words of despair, recorded in Joshua 7:7-9:
7 And Joshua said, Alas,
O Lord God, why didst Thou ever bring this people over the Jordan,
only to deliver us into the hand of the Amorites, to destroy
us? If only we had been willing to dwell beyond the Jordan!
8 O Lord, what can
I say since Israel has turned their back before their enemies?
9 For the Canaanites
and all the inhabitants of the land will hear of it, and they
will surround us and cut off our name from the earth. And
what wilt Thou do for Thy great name?
God
explained to Joshua that the Israelites loss was due to
their sin in the camp. Joshua began an inquiry in order
to find out whose sin had caused the defeat before the city of
Ai. Joshua began with the heads of the tribes, then with
the heads of the families, then the heads of the households in
succession to one family, then to individual persons within that
family. It wasnt long before Joshua found the guilty
party. As it turned out, Achan had let his greed get the
best of him. Achan confessed that he took a garment, two
hundred shekels of silver, and a wedge of gold of fifty shekels
weight. Achan buried them in the earth in the midst of
his tent. When Joshua sent messengers to Achans tent,
they found the spoils buried right where Achan said they were.
After the messengers took these things to Joshua, Joshua
took Achan, along with his sons and daughters, to the valley
of Achor. The children of Israel then stoned Achan along
with his sons and his daughters and afterward burned them as
God had commanded (Joshua 7).
Notice especially Joshua 7:1
1 But the sons of Israel acted unfaithfully
in regard to the things under the ban, for Achan, the son of
Carmi, the son of Zabdi, the son of Zerah, from the tribe of
Judah, took some of the things under the ban, therefore the anger
of the Lord burned against the sons of Israel.
It
was Achan who had sinned. But Achans sin had brought
disgrace upon the whole nation.
The decisions we make affect far
more than just ourselves. The choices we make often affect
our parents, our spouses, our children, our coworkers, our friends,
and our neighbors.
Second, when making decisions,
always BASE your decisions on your BELIEFS. Consider the
cowardly decision of Pilate, recorded in Matthew 27:1-26. We
do not have the time to read this long section, but I think we
are familiar with it. When the chief priests desired to
have Jesus killed, they brought him before Pilate. It was
customary to release one prisoner of the peoples choosing.
When Pilate asked the people who they wanted to be released,
Jesus or Barabbas, the people responded, Barabbas!
Pilate then asked, What shall
I do then with Jesus which is called Christ? They
all demanded, Let him be crucified! After having
Jesus scourged, Pilate delivered him over to the people to be
crucified. Before doing so, Pilate took water and washed
his hands, saying, I am innocent of the blood of this just
person: see ye to it. Pilate was fooling himself
if he thought he could clear himself of guilt so easily!
What was Pilates downfall?
He believed Jesus was a just and innocent man, and rightfully
so. But, lacking any real convictions, Pilate chose to
give in to the demands of the majority. Again that reference
for you to check out is Matthew 27:1-26.
Unfortunately, there are still
many today who base their decisions upon the latest polls, never
committing themselves without first holding their finger in the
air to see which way the wind is blowing. We ought to make
our decisions according to what we know to be right, even when
it means going against the crowd.
Third, when making decisions, always
CONSIDER the CONSEQUENCES. Think for a moment of David
and his rash decision to commit adultery with Bathsheba. This
is found in 2 Samuel 11:1-12:23, again this is a long section
and I encourage you to read it following todays program
that reference again is 2 Samuel 11:1 - 12:23. A
summary of that story would be: One evening, David arose
from his bed and went out on the roof of his house. While
there, he saw Bathsheba, a very beautiful woman, bathing. When
David sent for Bathsheba and committed adultery with her, Bathsheba
became pregnant. David then devised a plan whereby he would
try to conceal his sin. David sent for Uriah, Bathshebas
husband, and told him to go to his house. But Uriah refused
to do so saying, in 2 Samuel 11:11
11 And Uriah said to David,
The ark and Israel and Judah are staying in temporary shelters,
and my lord Joab and the servants of my lord are camping in the
open field. Shall I then go to my house to eat and to drink
and to lie with my wife? By your life and the life of your
soul, I will not do this thing.
David then wrote a letter to
Joab, instructing him to place Uriah in the heat of the battle.
Joab and his men were then to retreat from Uriah, allowing
him to be killed. Joab and his men did so and, after Uriahs
death, David took Bathsheba to his house and took her for his
wife.
But God was displeased with what
David had done. When God sent Nathan to David, Nathan told
David a story of two men in one city, one rich and one poor.
The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds. But
the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb, which he
had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together with him,
and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and drank
of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a daughter.
When a traveler came to see the rich man, the rich man
did not take from his own flock and his own herd to prepare a
meal for the traveler. Instead, the rich man took the poor
mans lamb and prepared it as a meal for the traveler. When
Nathan relayed this story to David, David became greatly angered.
Listen to Davids reply in 2 Samuel 12:5-6
5 Then Davids anger
burned greatly against the man, and he said to Nathan, As
the Lord lives, surely the man who has done this deserves to
die.
6 And
he must make restitution for the lamb fourfold, because he did
this thing and had no compassion.
While David understood the lesson,
he didnt get the point, so keep reading to see Nathans
reply, 2 Samuel 12:7
7 Nathan then said to David,
You are the man! Thus says the Lord God of Israel,
It
is I who anointed you king over Israel and it is I who delivered
you from the hand of Saul.
Because David repented and confessed
his sin before God, he was forgiven as we read in 2 Samuel 12:13
13 Then David said to Nathan,
I have sinned against the Lord. And Nathan
said to David, The Lord also has taken away your sin; you
shall not die.
But Gods forgiveness did
not eliminate the consequences of Davids sin. Listen
to the words of 2 Samuel 12:14
14 However, because
by this deed you have given occasion to the enemies of the Lord
to blaspheme, the child also that is born to you shall surely
die.
Friends,
Davids decision to commit adultery with Bathsheba had tragic
consequences, just as our sins have grave consequences today.
The apostle Paul wrote, in Galatians 6:7
7 Do not be deceived, God
is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also
reap.
Men
not only reap the consequences of their sins while they are yet
on this earth, but for all eternity as well.
Our time is about up for this morning,
but we have seen three important points in decision making. We
must be aware of others, we need to have beliefs and stick to
them, and we need to remember there are consequences for our
decisions.
This Berean Break is brought to
you by the church of Christ meeting at 1600 East First Ave, in
Mitchell SD. Remember to choose wisely because your souls
eternal home depends on it. If you have any questions or
comments please contact us.
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